On the Day You Born

Dear Isabella and Sophia,

This first letter is many years overdue. The days you were born were the happiest moments in my life (no offense Kristy). It is truly impossible to put into words what a dad feels on the day his daughters are born. But I am going to try. I remember driving with your mommy to the hospital, just the two of us, and realizing for the first time how much our lives were going to change. I think people generally think of hospitals as places where sick people go; but to me your birthing Hospital is a place of life and love. I can close my eyes and still recall the vivid image of both of you entering the world. I remember every color, every cry, every smell of the delivery room. I also remember that I couldn't take my eyes of you. I fell in love with you the moment I laid eyes on you. . . to be continued

Painting . . .

is not so bad. Everyone in my family can testify that I really dislike painting. However we realized that after 6 years the girl's bedroom needed to be freshened up. So we chose a little bit darker shade of pink and I went for it.

I actually am a good painter, but in our starter house we tackled the entire house inside and out. I actually think I spent more time painting then teaching:) But in small chunks painting is not so bad. I made no mess, cut in the corners and trim, then knocked out the rest with a roller. Just in case you didn't figure it out, you're looking at a finished wall. Hey I'm proud of my work!

Gotta go, need to move the furniture back so Kristy and her mom can put on the new bedding for the girls.

The Bond of a Sister's Love

This is one of Kristy's and mine favorite picture of Isabella and Sophia. Our friend and photographer, Melinda Kim, took us to this great nature park in Seal Beach. Gum Grove Park is a hidden gem of meandering trails, tall eucalyptus, and mysterious shadows. She added the couch and the girls did the rest. I love the expressions on both girls faces, and I wonder what they were talking and laughing about. They will never remember the conversation, but we will all have the memory of a beautiful day.

It is absolutely amazing to see the girls together. They have an amazing friendship and love that will keep them bonded forever. They play amazing together, share food, clothes and toys. I love hearing them talk to one another carrying on like little adults. Their love and friendship is a testament to Kristy; who in my opinion is the most passionate mother I know.

Happy Easter

Happy Easter. What a beautiful day. As I sit and add to the blog today the sun is shining, I hear the birds singing, and there is a crisp to the air. Please take the time today to really appreciate all the gifts you have. Earlier this week, Angel pitcher, Nick Adenhart, was killed in a car accident. He faced great adversity on his way to becoming a Major League pitcher. If we can take one lesson from this senseless tragedy: life is too short and we should be thankful for life and all that we receive.

Today hug your kids a little bit tighter, exercise more patience with those who may test your patience, and savor the precious moments.

A must read for every dad.

Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters by Meg Meeker, MD is a tremendous book for all fathers of daughters. I did not know the true impact I have on my girls until I read this book. Our daughters will grow up in a dangerous world and it is up to us as fathers to protect them, guide them, and fight for them. Society will attempt to define their lives for them, but we must be present with our constant love and undying devotion. We must show our daughters what it means to have patience, fight for what you believe in, and the power of unconditional love.

This easy read can be found at all Barnes and Nobles or Borders. Or you can get a copy @ www.amazon.com/strong-fathers-daughters-1st.

Be the hero your daughter deserves

Who I am

This is my story. I am a son. I am a brother. I am a friend. I am a teacher. I am a husband. But the most important thing that I am is: I AM A FATHER. No matter what happens at work or at home one thing stays constant: I have two little girls, Isabella and Sophia, that need me to be their father. I hope you enjoy my story as I share with you all the joys that encompass being a modern day daddy.